Often, when we are beset with relationship problems, we want the other person to change. We do everything we can to change our friends, family members, partners, significant others. It seems that the harder we try, the more difficult the relationship becomes. But when we step back and allow them to be who they are, they begin to change. Why? Because we brought true understanding to the relationship. We go beyond our concept of other people and truly feel their essence. We then realize that there is no problem at all, and that each moment is the best.